The talk addresses the importance of Zen practice in realizing intimacy and the role of formal practices in facilitating deep spiritual relationships. It reflects on personal anecdotes involving Suzuki Roshi to illustrate how seemingly mundane interactions, such as learning to count in Japanese or practicing formal walking, serve as profound spiritual instructions. The narrative emphasizes the Zen approach to relationships and solitude, where formality and mindfulness nurture intimacy, and contrasts these with informal interactions that often overlook deeper connections.

• “Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind” by Shunryu Suzuki

• This text is pertinent for understanding Suzuki Roshi's teachings, embodying the spirit of beginner's mind and practices that cultivate intimacy.

• Dogen's Teachings on Zazen

• Referenced to underline the necessity of solitude in Zen practice, emphasizing creating a suitable environment for zazen (sitting meditation).

• Precious Mirror Samadhi

• This text mentions "practicing secretly, working within, like a fool, like an idiot," underscoring the talk's theme on the importance of internal work.

• Story of the Roman Matron and Rabbi

• Illustrates the complexity of achieving true spiritual relationships, equating the work to that of God making marriages.

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